Oh! Its Valentines Day soon!
Valentine day is a day for couples right? Okay, Im going to give you some advice dependant on your current status. Either your single, taken or its complicated. Here’s making it easy for you. Here’s Valentines day characterised by your partners personality and status. So here’s the do’s and don’ts!
How you going to spend Valentines?
For the contented, hopeless romantic.
So, you have been dating a while and all is good. She will be expecting flowers, chocolates and dinner. Make sure you reserve a table for dinner and if its by candlelight, then your on a winner or create a restaurant setting in your home, and cook her favourite foods. Save some music for the bedroom, where you have prepared the bedroom with petals on the bed for home time. Remember to make an effort and dress up. Don’t disappoint this gal, she will have gauged the length of the relationship and is looking for a show of commitment in the way of a display of your love for her.
The playful who cares type.
Lucky you, you are not going to fail. Flowers, chocolates, perfume,candles or restaurant, she is going to smile anyway. Buy her some lingerie. If your not sure on her measurements sneak a peak. Go get her something to please you both! she will think your thoughtful for getting her something personal and it fits! Dont tell her you checked her bra size out! tell her you know her all too well, she will be impressed. Don’t presume because she is the happy go lucky type and that you wont have to make an effort, secretly she is hoping you will do something special. Be charming and she will remember.
High Maintenance Type.
This lady needs to have her demands met. She is going to want you to do something so special, so she can tell her friends how wonderful you are. Basically, your pockets got to be as deep as your love for her. You either have to book a trip to Paris or buy her something that she can wear that will impress her and her friends. Don’t get a takeaway and rely on the TV for entertainment, start planning now. She will be expecting something of a WOW! factor to measure your love.
Cant be with the one you love? single? wishing for the day to pass quickly? book yourself a spa day, watch a movie at home, buy some bath treats and relax. Failing this, plan a night to occupy yourself. Don’t drink at home and send drunk texts, watch sad movies and sit and think how lonely you are, use the time for yourself constructively. Positive thinking, use the night to do something you have been putting off for a while, work some overtime or cover a colleagues shift. They will love you for it.
The long haul type.
You gonna have to pull out all the stops to stop this one from complaining. She has been so long in the relationship she is waiting for you to pop the question. Its time to re-evaluate. She is waiting. However, don’t jump in too quickly and promise her a wedding day if your a commitment phob. An alternative step, which is a compromise, is a promise ring. That will at least buy you some time and ear ache. She will in turn, feel safe in the knowledge that your making progress, if only baby steps, in the right direction. Re-create the day you met and reaffirm that your love for her is like no other, just like the day you met her, only much more ! Treat this love like a lady.
The Single Valentine.
You have had your eyes set on this girl for a while. Not made any moves to asking her and she doesn’t even know you exist. Valentines is a good way to be anonymous with a card. If your really brave ask her to meet you at a time and place written in the card. But otherwise use valentines as a day to approach a possible love partner. Yes its cheesy, and takes some guts and planning but exciting for you both and who knows what could happen.